Sometimes it’s easy to get stuck in a cycle of doing things a certain way. Seeing things a certain way. While there’s nothing inherently wrong with that (and we humans tend to value routine), benefit can be derived from occasionally driving off-road, so to speak.
For example, my daughter recently graduated from high school. What a day! There I was in the stadium with my family to celebrate this unique occasion. Typically, I would ready my phone to record the significant moments – perhaps even moving to a different location to get a better vantage from which to film. Instead I did something different. I remained where I was and immersed myself in the scene. Without a phone to distract me and viewing what was in front of me through my own eyes, unfiltered, I gave my full attention to what was unfolding below: The students in their blue gowns walking across the green field. The principal giving his speech. My daughter walking across the stage to receive her diploma. Me reaching for tissue on all of these occasions. I’m quite certain I would have missed something in the event had I not made a conscious decision to be fully present.
So I ask you – when was the last time you created a moment? One of my favorite U2 songs is, Stuck in a Moment You Can’t Get Out Of. If you are currently stuck and in need of a fresh perspective, strategy, or mindset to get unstuck so you can move forward, I invite you to contact me via one of the links on my website.
All the Best,
Chuck
